Becoming the woman and wife God wants me to be is not always easy. It can be hard work sometimes. However, I often forget that I am not the one doing most of the work; the Holy Spirit is.
God calls us to humble ourselves and ask Him to lead us and show us areas that we need molded or changed. We need to walk in obedience to His leading. If we do this then God will reward us:
"Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gates." Proverbs 31:31
Are you asking the Holy Spirit to lead you and mold you into the Godly woman He wants you to be?